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THE OUTPOST by Frank Wrinn's avatar

You’re a good writer, well researched too. My niece had a harassment situation in her summer workplace. Her boss, a female, appears to have handled it well. Supervisors in that field would have had better training in the law and procedures related.

On accusations of sexual assault, my late stepmother was fairly wise. A star football player, a senior at the University of Tennessee, was charged with rape shortly before the draft. The head coach and athletic department rallied to support him (though not explicitly his side of the story), even a press conference. I was infuriated as a fan and as a parent of a daughter who attended there, believing as I still do that the university should remained neutral in every conceivable sense. I took some flack on that from some alumni and fan friends of mine.

When I told my stepmother what I thought about it, she cautioned me about young women in pursuit of a football star. I thought she was just not being woke, but sure enough, two or three years later he was acquitted when the accuser recanted after some recorded conversions surfaced that proved it was really an abusive, “if I can’t have him (and his income potential), nobody will.” The NFL had banned him from the draft and the league, but after the acquittal, he got a tryout and had a good but shortened career. He lost tens of millions of dollars that he would have made by being a high draft choice. I can see how a young man might fear finding himself in the unlucky 2 to 8% and still be on the side of victims. Empathy is hard.

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